Wow. What a dilemma. I also feel your pain. Very short notice plus you had plans and flights booked so can fully understand. But like you it would have been on my mind for ages. On the flip side and my dilemma is not even half as bad as yours my mate turns 60 on the weekend of the second Hype Park gig. He is thinking of having a party on the Saturday but hasn’t committed to it. So I have blown him out to see Bruce again!!